I used to feel really guilty, to the point I'd tell the cashier to let the person in the standard line go ahead of us if they were there first.
BUT I did this one final time at a buffet, for two people that turned out to be with a big group that was still debating about who was paying what. (They had the 30 minute wait to figure it out.)
Not only were they not gracious at all, they looked at us like we were chumps for offering, dawdled, acted like it was their due, then tried to SLOWLY bring the whole group through, paying one at a time. (We were just offering to let the one couple through who had already paid....not the great, thundering herd who had NOT paid yet....)
Well, their rudeness infuriated the staff, the lady held up her hand like a cop and firmly told them NO. She then was super nice to us and asked up to come through. She had seen us try to be nice and it actually made her protective of us, I really appreciated it.
Now I no longer feel guilty. I'm always polite, but it's probably the perk I like most on mlife!
