Another thread about downtown cocktail servers got me thinking. Do you care what your cocktail server looks like? I may look up when I order, so that I can remember who my server was when they return. But as long as they are efficient, professional, and dressed so that I can recognize that their job is to serve cocktails, I don't care what they look like. I don't care what their gender is either. I just want my drink. Is it just me?