My husband is telling me to calm down but I'm so frustrated with one of my neighbors. I'm seeking advice from cooler heads than mine (or maybe hotter heads). I live in a very dense townhouse neighborhood. Parking is at a premium and street parking is hard to find. My husband and I pay yearly to lease an additional parking spot. One of my neighbors (an idiot based on their inability to park straight) keeps parking in our spot. The stupid thing is, they lease the spot next to us. I don't know if they are confused, or impolite, or what. I keep trying to figure out who it is but I never actually see the owner of the car so I'm not sure who they are or where they live. I've left a few notes on the windshield and always just park on the street but now it's starting to piss me off. With the holiday weekend, I had to park four blocks from my house last night. Not the biggest deal ever but when I pay for a spot across the street, I expect to be able to use it. I want to have this car towed. My husband wants to contact the property manager and find out if we can contact these people and ask them to stop. He thinks towing the car would make us bad neighbors but I think their continued violation of our parking lease makes them bad neighbors. After repeated "chances" I'm tired of their BS. I feel like towing them would send them a message they might actually understand. What would you do?