I am prolly asking for trouble, however, I just want opinions not grief. My son turns 3 in less than a month. His father isn't really around much. He is allowed one weekend a month, and took 4/12 this year and looks for any excuse to not have him. ' Anyways, my son knows he is having a party and accidentally told his dad, now his dad invited himself. I asked him if he was going, if he would pay his half, he said it depeneded on how the guests treated him and his parents when they arrived. So not only did he invite himself and his parents, but I told him I did not want him there, and he got all upset and started crying. So what do I do? my family, grandparents, friends all dislike him tremendously. I am talking, they know he keeps quitting jobs because he hates the jobs, refuses to pay his child support, his father pays it for him, and that he never wanted our son.. so.. I don't want him there, so do I just allow them all to come and pay and keep my mouth shut, or keep trying to convince him not to go, that he wasn't invited.