I am (in my mid 40's) and in the process of updating my will (I did my first one 15 years ago or so and this is the second or third time I am updating it). I have been talking to my GF about it (we have been together for almost 20 years just never married) and she is freaked about the whole thing. When I show her a draft and the changes I am making she "doesn't want to think about it". She gets more and more of my assets as I have been updating it, so she is not upset about that part of it. She just thinks it is morbid. To me it is just a part of life and I want make sure things are in order. She doesn't have one (of course) so I don't know who will get what of her assets if something happens to her. I don't really care but would prefer to know her wishes but she wont do it. Thoughts from the people here on having a will?