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TR 7/21-8/10 saddest trip of my life

Discussion in 'Vegas Trip Reports' started by benbrownjr, Aug 29, 2016.

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  1. bshowell

    bshowell VIP Whale

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    So sorry to hear that, but what a wonderful friend you are. We should all hope to have someone like that in our lives.
     
  2. FormallyTD

    FormallyTD Big Time

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    Sorry to read about Eric, Ben. The very best to you and his family.

    One (out of many) horrible things about it is that you think of your best friend every day for the rest of your life and, for a little while, you see him as he was at the end. It's very rough, but you're a great guy for being there with him for seventeen long years and at the end.

    Your life is better because Eric was in it and time will heal this wound, eventually.

    My very best to you and take care.
     
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  3. imheids

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    Oh my! I'm a true believer in only the good die young. This wasn't Eric's doing, he didn't ask for this, but God needed Eric to be with God. No more suffering. Vegas does help with grieving. Healing hugs to you.
     
  4. benbrownjr

    benbrownjr Low-Roller

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    Thanks for your kind words and everyone's kind words

    I used to go to Vegas once a month and would visit eric every time. I don't know how I feel about it but there are places that I will never go to again like Paris, the gardens at the flamingo, twain ave, etc. We went to so many places. Time will ultimately tell but right now I don't look at vegas the way I once did.
     
  5. emmas

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    My condolences on the loss of your friend. I hope posting about him and letting others know a bit about him help in this difficult time.
     
  6. WHU66

    WHU66 High-Roller

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    It seems you had an amazing friendship, thank you for sharing and I hope you find your peace with Vegas, I'm sure Eric would want you to revel in the good times and remember the fun you had together. All the best.
     
  7. pleasemum

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    The on-line memorial is such a very touching tribute to your good friend Eric. Thank you for sharing his story with us.
     
  8. KimiCoconuts

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    I am so sad for you and his family. What a tremendous friend you are to him and the fact you were there with him at his final passing. You are a wonderful friend and person. May your healing be peaceful. I am sorry.
     
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  9. Irishdiva66

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    I am so sorry you lost your beautiful friend so young, my condolences you were both lucky to have known each other.

    When a loved one becomes a memory the memories become treasures
     
  10. DerbyCityGal

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    What a lovely tribute to your friend, I am so sorry for your loss.
     
  11. breanna61

    breanna61 Super Moderator

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    Ben, I am so very sorry for the loss of your dear friend Eric, taken far too soon. You were both blessed to have that friendship. Some family, we weren't born into....it is a connection of the heart. RIP Eric.
     
  12. Snidely

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    Sorry for your loss.
     
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  13. MikeOPensacola

    MikeOPensacola El Jefe

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    Ben, we should all be blessed to have a friend as loyal and caring as you. My deepest sympathies.......
     
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  14. LolaDoggie

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    I am so very sorry for your loss. It takes a strong person to stay there through the end. I'm also sorry his family isn't doing some kind of service because that's always good therapy for everybody.
     
  15. johnnytwofingers

    johnnytwofingers Low-Roller

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    My condolences. Everyone should be so lucky to have a friend as good as you by their side when their time comes.
     
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  16. Sparky4

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    You're a great friend. Find peace in knowing you were with him until the end. That's a true friend,
     
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  17. benbrownjr

    benbrownjr Low-Roller

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    I want to sincerely thank everyone for the posts and even more for the vista to his memorial site. It comforts me knowing that, dispite his family, he will not be forgotten.

    Once again THANK YOU
    Benjamin
     
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  18. Rush

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    Very sad. Sorry for your loss.
     
  19. BaileyPaws

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    Reading your post got me very sad and a little teary. I have been through many big losses in the last 2 years and there's really no words anyone can ever say to make you feel any better. My condolences to you. I know how bad it hurts.
     
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  20. Kit39

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    I'm am sorry about your friend:(. That was a very loving tribute to him. My father died in that exact same hospital on Sept 20th 2015 he went to Laughlin on vacation and got sick and they flew him to Vegas. I hope the staff was as kind to you as they were to us. I had to fly from Denver to be with my dad. My thoughts and prayers are with you. It's so hard losing someone you love.
     
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